to hurt or to heal

Do we let it scab and heal or do we keep going back to it and heal where it hurts? Do we ignore completely and never look back, or do we reopen and revisit until we have removed any emotional charge on it? Love is found in everything that you are willing to receive. There is an answer and a cure. There are different methods to match different scenarios, but the point is that we must decide. Decide whether or not we want this pain to consume us entirely or if we want to consume it. We can either swallow and digest it or spit it out and remove ourselves from either positive or negative substance that may have potentially benefited us. We can go headfirst or we can not go in at all. The choice is ours.